Wire up a real main<->VM SSH path for the standby's remote-info feature

The standby's "SSH to main server for containers/stats/system info"
fallback (RUNNING_ON_MAIN_SERVER=False path) was wired in code across
backups.py/users.py/commands.py/app.py but never actually worked:
outbound SSH from the VM is blocked by its own firewall (deliberate
hardening — ufw DENY OUT on 22/tcp and 2222/tcp, left untouched), and
separately the VM's contabo-key was never added to the main server's
authorized_keys in the first place.

Fixed via a persistent reverse tunnel instead of opening the VM's
firewall: main-to-vm-tunnel.service (systemd, auto-restart) runs on the
main server and keeps `ssh -R 2224:localhost:22` open to the VM, so the
VM can reach the main server's SSH via localhost:2224 without ever
needing outbound access itself. Added the standby's public key to the
main server's authorized_keys (chattr +i-locked — unlocked, appended,
re-locked immediately).

config.py (gitignored, not in this commit — edited live on both servers
directly) gets new MAIN_SERVER_SSH_HOST/PORT ("localhost"/"2224"), kept
deliberately separate from the existing MAIN_SERVER_IP (which stays the
real IP and is still used for on-page display in several templates —
overloading it for the tunnel target would have silently changed what's
shown in the UI). All four call sites switched from
MAIN_SERVER_IP/MAIN_SERVER_PORT to the new pair. Also fixed a pre-existing
bug in commands.py's run_command(): its SSH fallback had no -i key at all,
so it could never have authenticated even with the tunnel in place.

Verified end-to-end on the live standby: run_command(), backups.py's and
users.py's _ssh_main() all confirmed to actually execute on the real main
server (hostname/whoami/backup count all matched), not erroring or
silently no-op'ing.

platform/app.py

@@ -11,7 +11,8 @@ from datetime import datetime, timezone
 from config import (
     MAIN_SERVER_IP, RUNNING_ON_MAIN_SERVER,
     VM_HOST, VM_PORT, VM_KEY, VM_USER,
-    MAIN_SERVER_KEY, MAIN_SERVER_PORT, MAIN_SERVER_USER,
+    MAIN_SERVER_KEY, MAIN_SERVER_USER,
+    MAIN_SERVER_SSH_HOST, MAIN_SERVER_SSH_PORT,
 )
 from modules.auth import login_required
 from modules.backups import (
@@ -695,9 +696,9 @@ def api_r2_upload():
             local_path = f"/tmp/{backup_file}"
             if not os.path.exists(local_path):
                 pull_cmd = (
-                    f"scp -i {MAIN_SERVER_KEY} -P {MAIN_SERVER_PORT} "
+                    f"scp -i {MAIN_SERVER_KEY} -P {MAIN_SERVER_SSH_PORT} "
                     f"-o StrictHostKeyChecking=no -o ConnectTimeout=15 "
-                    f"{MAIN_SERVER_USER}@{MAIN_SERVER_IP}:/root/backups/{backup_file} "
+                    f"{MAIN_SERVER_USER}@{MAIN_SERVER_SSH_HOST}:/root/backups/{backup_file} "
                     f"{local_path}"
                 )
                 res = subprocess.run(pull_cmd, shell=True, capture_output=True, text=True)
@@ -799,9 +800,9 @@ def restore_start():
             backup_path = f"/tmp/{backup_file}"
             if not os.path.exists(backup_path):
                 pull_cmd = (
-                    f"scp -i {MAIN_SERVER_KEY} -P {MAIN_SERVER_PORT} "
+                    f"scp -i {MAIN_SERVER_KEY} -P {MAIN_SERVER_SSH_PORT} "
                     f"-o StrictHostKeyChecking=no -o ConnectTimeout=15 "
-                    f"{MAIN_SERVER_USER}@{MAIN_SERVER_IP}:/root/backups/{backup_file} "
+                    f"{MAIN_SERVER_USER}@{MAIN_SERVER_SSH_HOST}:/root/backups/{backup_file} "
                     f"{backup_path}"
                 )
                 res = subprocess.run(pull_cmd, shell=True, capture_output=True, text=True)