Wire up a real main<->VM SSH path for the standby's remote-info feature

The standby's "SSH to main server for containers/stats/system info"
fallback (RUNNING_ON_MAIN_SERVER=False path) was wired in code across
backups.py/users.py/commands.py/app.py but never actually worked:
outbound SSH from the VM is blocked by its own firewall (deliberate
hardening — ufw DENY OUT on 22/tcp and 2222/tcp, left untouched), and
separately the VM's contabo-key was never added to the main server's
authorized_keys in the first place.

Fixed via a persistent reverse tunnel instead of opening the VM's
firewall: main-to-vm-tunnel.service (systemd, auto-restart) runs on the
main server and keeps `ssh -R 2224:localhost:22` open to the VM, so the
VM can reach the main server's SSH via localhost:2224 without ever
needing outbound access itself. Added the standby's public key to the
main server's authorized_keys (chattr +i-locked — unlocked, appended,
re-locked immediately).

config.py (gitignored, not in this commit — edited live on both servers
directly) gets new MAIN_SERVER_SSH_HOST/PORT ("localhost"/"2224"), kept
deliberately separate from the existing MAIN_SERVER_IP (which stays the
real IP and is still used for on-page display in several templates —
overloading it for the tunnel target would have silently changed what's
shown in the UI). All four call sites switched from
MAIN_SERVER_IP/MAIN_SERVER_PORT to the new pair. Also fixed a pre-existing
bug in commands.py's run_command(): its SSH fallback had no -i key at all,
so it could never have authenticated even with the tunnel in place.

Verified end-to-end on the live standby: run_command(), backups.py's and
users.py's _ssh_main() all confirmed to actually execute on the real main
server (hostname/whoami/backup count all matched), not erroring or
silently no-op'ing.

platform/modules/backups.py

@@ -11,7 +11,8 @@ import socket
 import psutil
 from config import (
     RUNNING_ON_MAIN_SERVER,
-    MAIN_SERVER_IP, MAIN_SERVER_USER, MAIN_SERVER_KEY, MAIN_SERVER_PORT,
+    MAIN_SERVER_USER, MAIN_SERVER_KEY,
+    MAIN_SERVER_SSH_HOST, MAIN_SERVER_SSH_PORT,
     VM_HOST, VM_PORT, VM_KEY, VM_USER,
 )
 
@@ -43,10 +44,10 @@ def _ssh_main(remote_cmd, timeout=30):
     else:
         escaped = remote_cmd.replace("'", "'\\''")
         ssh = (
-            f"ssh -i {MAIN_SERVER_KEY} -p {MAIN_SERVER_PORT} "
+            f"ssh -i {MAIN_SERVER_KEY} -p {MAIN_SERVER_SSH_PORT} "
             f"-o StrictHostKeyChecking=no -o ConnectTimeout=10 "
             f"-o BatchMode=yes "
-            f"{MAIN_SERVER_USER}@{MAIN_SERVER_IP}"
+            f"{MAIN_SERVER_USER}@{MAIN_SERVER_SSH_HOST}"
         )
         return _run(f"{ssh} '{escaped}'", timeout=timeout)
 
@@ -275,9 +276,9 @@ def _resolve_archive_path(backup_file, source, add):
         tmp_path = f"/tmp/audit_{backup_file}"
         if not os.path.exists(tmp_path):
             pull_cmd = (
-                f"scp -i {MAIN_SERVER_KEY} -P {MAIN_SERVER_PORT} "
+                f"scp -i {MAIN_SERVER_KEY} -P {MAIN_SERVER_SSH_PORT} "
                 f"-o StrictHostKeyChecking=no -o ConnectTimeout=15 "
-                f"{MAIN_SERVER_USER}@{MAIN_SERVER_IP}:/root/backups/{backup_file} "
+                f"{MAIN_SERVER_USER}@{MAIN_SERVER_SSH_HOST}:/root/backups/{backup_file} "
                 f"{tmp_path}"
             )
             _out, err = _run(pull_cmd, timeout=120)

platform/modules/commands.py

@@ -1,5 +1,5 @@
 import subprocess
-from config import RUNNING_ON_MAIN_SERVER, MAIN_SERVER_IP
+from config import RUNNING_ON_MAIN_SERVER, MAIN_SERVER_KEY, MAIN_SERVER_SSH_HOST, MAIN_SERVER_SSH_PORT
 
 def run_command(command):
     """Run command on main server (directly or via SSH)"""
@@ -14,10 +14,12 @@ def run_command(command):
     else:
         ssh_cmd = [
             "ssh",
+            "-i", MAIN_SERVER_KEY,
+            "-p", MAIN_SERVER_SSH_PORT,
             "-o", "StrictHostKeyChecking=no",
             "-o", "ConnectTimeout=10",
             "-o", "BatchMode=yes",
-            f"root@{MAIN_SERVER_IP}",
+            f"root@{MAIN_SERVER_SSH_HOST}",
             command
         ]
         try:

platform/modules/users.py

@@ -7,7 +7,8 @@ import json
 
 from config import (
     RUNNING_ON_MAIN_SERVER,
-    MAIN_SERVER_IP, MAIN_SERVER_USER, MAIN_SERVER_KEY, MAIN_SERVER_PORT,
+    MAIN_SERVER_USER, MAIN_SERVER_KEY,
+    MAIN_SERVER_SSH_HOST, MAIN_SERVER_SSH_PORT,
 )
 
 
@@ -33,10 +34,10 @@ def _ssh_main(remote_cmd, timeout=30):
         # Escape single quotes in remote_cmd for safe shell wrapping
         escaped = remote_cmd.replace("'", "'\\''")
         ssh = (
-            f"ssh -i {MAIN_SERVER_KEY} -p {MAIN_SERVER_PORT} "
+            f"ssh -i {MAIN_SERVER_KEY} -p {MAIN_SERVER_SSH_PORT} "
             f"-o StrictHostKeyChecking=no -o ConnectTimeout=10 "
             f"-o BatchMode=yes "
-            f"{MAIN_SERVER_USER}@{MAIN_SERVER_IP}"
+            f"{MAIN_SERVER_USER}@{MAIN_SERVER_SSH_HOST}"
         )
         return _run(f"{ssh} '{escaped}'", timeout=timeout)